Everyone has something special,no one is better than the other

I just dont get it and most definitely I feel very bad when i fight with a friend.I think its just me ,i dont want enemys and if i can,i would like to make all my enemys my friends.But the funny thing is,i have a friend who i have known for almost 4 years now.I just dont get her nature.She speaks her heart most definitely but she likes to pick fights for small things.And this is the second time she has done that.She definitely apologises ,but how many times do I need to forgive her.I get feed up at times.And hr words are as sharp as a poccupines buttocks.It hurts bad.People tell me so many bad things about her but i try to just ignore them because no one is perfect.But when she hurts me ,I start thinking to not be perfect and to forgive has a limit.